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Jill M. Chonody, Associate Professor, Department of Social Work, Indiana University Northwest, Gary, IN. Mike
Killian, Assistant Professor, School of Social Work, The University of Texas at Arlington. Jacqui Gabb, Professor,
Faculty of Social Sciences, The Open University, Milton Keyes, UK. Priscilla Dunk-West, Senior Lecturer, Faculty
of Social and Behavioural Studies, Flinders University, Adelaide, South Australia.
Copyright © 2016 Authors Vol. 17 No. 2 (Fall 2016), 355-368, DOI:10.18060/21155
Understanding Everyday Relationship Work: The Development of a
Relationship Maintenance Scale
Jill M. Chonody
Mike Killian
Jacqui Gabb
Priscilla Dunk-West
Abstract: Relationship maintenance behaviors contribute to the longevity of intimate
relationships, yet existing scales are limited. Available measurement tools are
primarily constrained to the Relationship Maintenance Strategy Measure (RMSM) and
its further revisions. Covering a number of domains, conceptual overlap with other
aspects of an intimate relationship (e.g., household division of labor) may exist. Our
cross-sectional exploratory study included participants from 60 countries (n=8,162)
who completed an online survey. Participants were diverse in their relationship status,
age, sexual orientation, and race/ethnicity. From their responses, we developed a
parsimonious and brief measure of relationship maintenance (8 items) through
exploratory and then confirmatory factor analyses. Results indicated that the
Relationship Maintenance Scale (RMS) shows initial evidence of reliability and
validity. The RMS may have utility in working with couples and families. Future
research should seek to re-test its use with varied samples, such as couples seeking
relationship support.
Keywords: Relationship maintenance; scale development; psychometrics; couple
relationship
Despite the way that intimate relationships have been shaped and redefined over
time and the loosening of social pressure to legally marry, most adults spend some or
nearly all of their lives in a romantic couple relationship. According to a recent report
by the Pew Research Center, 53% of adults living in the United States were living with
a romantic partner, with 47% being married to that individual (Lenhart & Duggan,
2014). In Europe, marriage rates are somewhat lower as young adults opt to live
together without marriage. An exception is the UK, where married couples head up
seven in ten households with recent figures showing an increase in legal unions that
equates to one marriage every two minutes (ONS, 2014). In the first five years of civil
partnerships in the UK (December 2005–2010), over 46,000 same-sex partnerships had
been registered (ONS, 2011). Understanding these relationships is important as an
enduring relationship can support personal well-being and overall health (Kiecolt-
Glaser & Newton, 2001) and reduce the risk of depression (Walker, Isherwood, Burton,
Kitwe-Magambo, & Luszcz, 2013).
Whether the couple is married or in a committed relationship without marriage,
dissolution of the coupledom is a chief social concern and may be viewed as a public
health issue given its impact on individuals and children. Dissolution can have an adverse
effect on adults’ mental and physical health (Coleman & Glenn, 2009), and children of
divorce have lower scores on well-being than children living in intact families (Amato
& Keith, 1991; Garriga & Kiernan, 2013). A major cause of family breakdown is poor
relationship quality (Relationships Alliance, 2014), which is, therefore, an important