International Journal for Multidisciplinary Research (IJFMR) E-ISSN: 2582-2160 ● Website: www.ijfmr.com ● Email: editor@ijfmr.com IJFMR23033186 Volume 5, Issue 3, May-June 2023 1 A Study of Self-Confidence of Secondary School Students in Relation to Social Skills Dr Rajkumari 1 , Ms. Kirti 2 1 Assistant Professor, Department of Education, BPSMV, Khanpur Kalan Sonepat 2 M. A(Education), Department of Education, BPSMV, Khanpur Kalan Sonepat Abstract The aim of the present study was to compare and relation between the self confidence and social skills of secondary schools students. In this study collect the data 100 students random sampling from private and government schools for secondary schools students in the Haryana district of Sonipat. The tool used life Social skills was developed adaptation by Sharma (1997) & Self confidence was developed by D.D. Pandey Hardwar (2010). The mean, SD,‘t’-test and co-relation were used to analyze the data. According to study’s finding, there is no effect of social skills by Gender and no relationship between social skills and self confidence of secondary school students. Keywords: Social Skills, Self Confidence, Secondary School students INTRODUCTION Social Skills Social skills are learned by the brain like any other skills. Some children spontaneously pick it up, that may be not true for children with learning Disorders this skills involve the ability of the brain to understand social conventions .it is significantly affected in these children .they are unable to pick up eniverment cues like other children of their age. They may get over friendly with strangers, and are often unable to think of the consequence of their actions, they may not understand facial expressions. These children are deficient in assertive skills and many of then become loners as they lack the skills to mix with peers. Often they are seen with children to younger (they merge because of their behaviour). These sub types of learning problems described have been delineated for theoretical purpose. However, in practice, it is found that this type of compartmentalisation is not valid. Almost all children with one learning Disorder May have some difficulty with another learning skill. Self Confidence Self confidence is an important ingredient for living a happy and fulfilling life. Understanding the benefits of self-confidence are an important step toward living you best life. Here are five key-rewards of self-confidence: I was chatting with a friend this week who sharing a work situation that she was wished she had expressed more confidence. She believed that she would be more respected by her colleagues and be given more opportunities. Can you relate? Are there situations in your professional or personal live where you wish you felt more confident?