Sexual Economics: Sex as Female Resource for Social Exchange
in Heterosexual Interactions
Roy F. Baumeister
Department of Psychology
Florida State University
Kathleen D. Vohs
Faculty of Commerce, Marketing Division
University of British Columbia
A heterosexual community can be analyzed as a marketplace in which men seek to ac-
quire sex from women by offering other resources in exchange. Societies will therefore
define gender roles as if women are sellers and men buyers of sex. Societies will en-
dow female sexuality, but not male sexuality, with value (as in virginity, fidelity, chas-
tity). The sexual activities of different couples are loosely interrelated by a market-
place, instead of being fully separate or private, and each couple’s decisions may be
influenced by market conditions. Economic principles suggest that the price of sex
will depend on supply and demand, competition among sellers, variations in product,
collusion among sellers, and other factors. Research findings show gender asymme-
tries (reflecting the complementary economic roles) in prostitution, courtship, infidel-
ity and divorce, female competition, the sexual revolution and changing norms, un-
equal status between partners, cultural suppression of female sexuality, abusive
relationships, rape, and sexual attitudes.
Sexual activity is often regarded as among the most
private of activities, negotiated by two individuals on
the basis of their own individual desires and values.
Idealistic treatments describe the two individuals as
potentially equal and interchangeable. In this article,
we place sexual negotiations in the context of a cultural
system in which men and women play different roles
resembling buyer and seller—in a marketplace that is
ineluctably affected by the exchanges between other
buyers and sellers.
In recent decades, two main theoretical approaches
have dominated the field of sexuality. One of these em-
phasizes biological determinants, especially as shaped
by evolutionary pressures. The other emphasizes social
construction, especially as shaped by political forces.
Both have proposed to explain differences between
men and women. The evolutionary approach stresses
the different reproductive strategies of men and women
and the difference as to what pattern of sexual response
would have led to the highest quality and number of
successful offspring. The social constructionist approach,
generally based on feminist theory, has emphasized
male subjugation of women and how women respond
to their oppressed position in society. Thus, the disci-
plines of biology and politics have been most promi-
nent in guiding how psychologists think about sex.
This article turns to a different discipline, namely
economics, to elucidate a theory of sexual interactions.
An economic approach to human behavior was defined
by (subsequent) Nobel laureate Gary Becker (1976) as
having four main assumptions. First, the behavior of
individuals is interconnected in market systems in
which individual choices are shaped by costs and bene-
fits in the context of stable preferences. Second, scarce
but desirable resources are allocated by price shifts and
other market influences. Third, sellers of goods or ser-
vices compete with each other (as buyers also some-
times do, but not as much). Fourth, people seek to max-
imize their outcomes. Although economists initially
focused on material goods and material needs, many
have begun to look at nonmaterial goods (such as ser-
vices) and nonmonetary media of exchange (such as
time or emotion). In adopting such an approach, our
theory will therefore be primarily cultural in the sense
that it looks at how individual behavior is shaped by the
market and other aspects of the collective network, but
just as economic exchange is based on what nature has
shaped people to want and need, natural motivations
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Personality and Social Psychology Review
2004, Vol. 8, No. 4, 339–363
Copyright © 2004 by
Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc.
We thank Janet Hyde for comments on an earlier version of this
article.
Requests for reprints should be sent to Roy F. Baumeister, De-
partment of Psychology, Florida State University, Tallahassee,
FL 32306–1270 E-mail: baumeister@darwin.psy.fsu.edu Or to
Kathleen D. Vohs, Sauder School of Business, Marketing Division,
University of British Columbia, 2053 Main Hall, Vancouver, British
Columbia V62 1Z2, Canada. E-mail: kathleen.vohs@sauder.ubc.ca