“Life Is Already Hard Enough”: Lesbian and Gay Adoptive Parents’
Experiences and Concerns After the 2016 Presidential Election
Kaitlin A. Gabriele-Black
1
, Abbie E. Goldberg
2
, Melissa H. Manley
2
, and
Reihonna L. Frost
2
1
Department of Psychology, Salve Regina University
2
Department of Psychology, Clark University
The 2016 U.S. presidential election was an especially difficult election for many
Americans, particularly individuals with one or more marginalized identities. This
qualitative study explores the experiences of sexual minority adoptive parents
(n = 50), many of whom were members of multiracial families. Parents completed an
online survey 2–3 weeks after the November 2016 presidential election, and 2.5 months
later (1–2 weeks after the January 2017 inauguration). Through an integrated minority
stress and intersectional theory lens, we examined participants’ emotional responses to
this stressful, ambiguous political event, their perceptions of how immediate and
extended family relationships shifted during the election and its aftermath, and how
they coped with stress, including relationship stress, exacerbated by the election and the
political climate. Most participants reported experiencing negative emotions such as fear/
anxiety, anger, and sadness upon learning the outcome of the election. Many participants
reported that the election impacted family dynamics, including conflict with extended
family, partners, or children. Adoptive sexual minority parents coped in a variety of ways,
including by pursuing activism, connecting with others, and disengaging from thinking
about the election. These findings have implications for how mental health care providers
may support adoptive sexual minority parent families to cope with stressful political
events.
Keywords: coping, election, emotions, sexual minority parent families
The 2016 U.S. presidential election cycle, start-
ing with the nomination and selection of major party
candidates and concluding on November 8th with
the election of Donald Trump, was a particularly
difficult one for many Americans given that the
results were largely unexpected (Flegenheimer &
Barbaro, 2016) and the majority of voters—partic-
ularly sexual minorities—had supported a different
candidate (Kiley & Maniam, 2016). For those with
minority statuses (e.g., sexual minorities, racial
minorities, and adoptees), the election results
appeared to represent a legitimate threat to their
well-being, safety, and status within the U.S.
(Brenoff, 2016; Cahill & Makadon, 2017;
Fuchsman, 2017; Kteily & Bruneau, 2017;
Potok, 2017; Tan et al., 2017). Indeed, following
the election, one national survey of over 2000
Americans found that acceptance of sexual minori-
ties dropped dramatically, for the first time in the
poll’s history (The Harris Poll, 2018). The well-
being of LGBTQ individuals also dipped after the
election as fears about the future increased: A 2016
Gallup poll found that the percentage of LGBTQ
adults who considered themselves to be “thriving”
dropped significantly following the election
(Gates, 2017).
The 2016 election itself marked the end of a
contentious and highly charged political cam-
paign season. Donald Trump campaigned on a
platform that, according to many observers
This article was published Online First May 13, 2021.
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Correspondence concerning this article should be ad-
dressed to Kaitlin A. Gabriele-Black, Department of Psy-
chology, Salve Regina University, 100 Ochre Point
Avenue, Newport, RI 02840, United States. Email:
kaitlin.black@salve.edu
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