© PARADOXA, NO. 18, 2003
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All page citations are from the cloth edition of Voyage from Lesbos, published
by The Citadel Press.
Voyage from Lesbos:
Aggression, Ambivalence, and
Psychoanalysis in the Fifties
Julia Creet
York University, Toronto, Canada
“Connie” (a pseudonym) first came to see Dr. Richard Robertiello,
M.D., some time around 1952. She had been referred to Robertiello for
depression after the break-up of an eight-year relationship. Robertiello,
opening the narrative of her case-history, Voyage from Lesbos: the
psychoanalysis of a female homosexual (1959), describes her as “an l
attractive girl of twenty-nine with dark hair and dark eyes and a good
figure…. Although she wasn’t ‘whistle-bait’…” (21).
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“She was very
matter-of-fact about telling me that she was a lesbian and that she had
been very depressed for the past seven or eight months after splitting
up with her steady girlfriend. Obviously, she did not expect a shocked
or disapproving response from me” (21).
Jo, Connie’s ex-girlfriend, was responsible for initiating Connie
into lesbianism. They were part of a group of office girls who would
customarily take in a movie or go bowling together after work. “It was
during these outings that Connie became aware of Jo’s interest. Jo would
make it a point to sit next to Connie at the movies and took to holding
her hand. This Connie enjoyed, and it did not occur to her that Jo might
be homosexual” (22). Although Connie was surprised by Jo’s sexual
advances, “she enjoyed it and became more aroused than she had ever
before. She was essentially a passive participant in the sexual play”
(22). Once they were together, they “spent all their free time out with
other lesbians at ‘gay’ bars and parties” and almost all Connie’s friends
were “homosexuals, male and female, although she had one ‘straight’
girl friend whom she saw a few times a year” (23-23).
Their relationship was a stormy one, despite the fact that it lasted
eight years, “which, incidentally,” Robertiello emphasizes, “is a very
long time for a homosexual relationship to last” (23). The relationship
was dependent on a pattern of violent fights and sexual reconciliation.
“Frequently, the fights became physical. They would hit each other,
pull hair, throw things, and really become violent. After it was over,