American Philosophical Quarterly
Volume 50, Number 4, October 2013
©2013 by the Board of Trustees of the University of Illinois
TALKING TO INFANTS:
A GRICEAN PERSPECTIVE
Steffen Borge
1. The Background
According to Paul Grice, when we ad-
dress someone, we intend to make ourselves
understood, partly by the addressee’s recogni-
tion of that intention. Call this set of nested
audience-directed intentions an M-intention.
The standard Gricean analysis of speaker’s
meaning goes as follows:
“U meant something by uttering x” is true iff,
for some audience A, U uttered x intending:
(1) A to produce a particular response r
(2) A to think (recognize) that U intends (1)
(3) A to fulfill (1) on the basis of his fulfillment
of (2).
(Grice 1969, p. 92)
Call this analysis the M-schema, and to fulfill
it, to M-intend. In the Gricean tradition there
has been a debate as to the exact form of M-
intentions (especially whether clause (3) is
needed or should be left out of the analysis),
but these are details that I will not address
here. The phenomenon of talking to infants
challenges the Gricean analysis of address-
ing others. We talk to infants, but such cases
cannot be described as M-intending anything,
since the speaker must realize that he will not
be able to make himself understood in the re-
quired manner. The Gricean mechanism lacks
an appropriate addressee. Some Griceans
have argued that in cases of no appropriate
addressee, the speaker is actually addressing
himself (Schiffer 1972, p. 80; Avramides
1989, p. 66). This response might be tempting
for soliloquy, but I will show that it is unsuited
for the phenomenon of talking to infants.
2. The Challenge
Orthodoxy has it that we cannot M-intend
when we talk to infants, since we cannot
expect infants to grasp such complex audi-
ence-directed intentions. Mitchell Green,
for example, argues that this shows that the
Gricean M-intention fails as a description of
speaker’s meaning (see also Davis 1992).
[G]azing into my newborn daughter’s eyes I
might say, “All things valuable are difficult as
they are rare,” meaning what I say, without hav-
ing the slightest intention to produce beliefs or
other attitudes in her or in anyone else. (Green
2007, pp. 60–61)
The Green example is not well crafted, since
it makes it tempting to say that the speaker
is talking to himself and thus fulfilling the
M-schema. A further and more interesting
question is whether people actually talk to
children in the manner Green says he does—
reciting words as if he were an actor on stage
delivering a monologue.
Mathilda Holzman has studied the interac-
tion between pre-linguistic infants and their
mothers, and in her study, we find no reciting
of poetry or other actor-like monologues. In-
stead, the mother engages the child, and there
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