Social and Personality Psychology Compass 9/11 (2015): 630–643, 10.1111/spc3.12205
Play Behavior and Playfulness in Adulthood
Meredith Van Vleet
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and Brooke C. Feeney
Carnegie Mellon University
Abstract
Although research has established play behavior and playfulness as important to the well-being of children
and animals, researchers have not typically considered the importance or implications of play in human
adults. This is surprising given that play behavior is a topic of high relevance to social psychology. Defi-
nitional issues, a lack of a theoretical framework, and a dearth of standardized measures have posed obsta-
cles in the advancement of this interesting research area, which is ripe for investigation. In this review, we
summarize the extant literature, identify strengths and weaknesses of this literature, propose definitions to
guide future work in this area, identify relevant theories that may be expanded to provide a framework for
programmatic research on play in adulthood, and elucidate avenues for future research. Our aim is to
encourage the development of this research area within social psychology.
Play Behavior and Playfulness in Adulthood
We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing
-George Bernard Shaw
Play is thought to be universal and essential to the healthy development and well-being of
young mammals (e.g., Power, 2000; Thorpe, 1966; Wilson, 1975). Play has been associated
with social, emotional, and cognitive development (including problem-solving abilities) in
young animals (Fagan, 1981; Harlow & Harlow, 1962) and children (e.g., Coolahan, Fantuzzo,
Mendez, & McDermott, 2000; Fantuzzo & McWayne, 2002; Fantuzzo, Sekino, & Cohen,
2004; Shonkoff & Phillips, 2000). Play behavior and playfulness also have been linked with
creativity and imagination (Singer, Singer, & Sherrod, 1980), adaptability (Sutton-Smith,
1970), high self-esteem, and autonomy (Barnett, 1991) in children (see also Tamis-LeMonda,
Shannon, Cabrera, & Lamb, 2004).
Surprisingly, however, research on play and playfulness in human adults is scarce. Despite the
paucity of empirical attention devoted to play in adulthood, adults often describe the most
enjoyable element of their romantic relationships as interactions in which they play with their
partner (Betcher, 1981; Lauer & Lauer, 2002). When a sample of married couples were asked
what they would miss most if their relationship were to dissolve, couples most often reported
their inside jokes and games (Betcher, 1981). Along similar lines, Lauer and Lauer (2002) found
that highly satisfied couples described play as an essential feature of their relationship – even
more important than sex or shared humor. Why, then, have researchers, particularly social
psychologists, not further explored this phenomenon?
One possible explanation for the void of research examining play in adulthood is that some
propose that play is not socially accepted in adulthood, and adults play little or not at all as a result
(Lieberman, 1977; Solnit, 1998). Adults are expected to be productive – whether at work or at
home. If play is not viewed as a productive means to spend one’s time, then play among adults
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