PRACTICE REVIEW
The Use and Limitations of Attachment Theory in Child Psychotherapy
Karen Zilberstein
Smith College School for Social Work
Attachment theory and research has proliferated in recent years, spawning new ideas and applications to
child therapy. Some of those interventions are creative and useful and rest on solid theory and research,
whereas others derive from tenuous assumptions. As an important developmental construct, attachment
plays a role in every therapy, but defining that role can be difficult. Therapists must recognize the
significance of attachment in treatment but not at the expense of recognizing and treating other issues.
This article provides an overview of attachment theory and attachment-based interventions and discusses
how to apply those constructs to therapeutic work with children. It reviews attachment theory, assess-
ment, and treatments, and discusses how attachment-focused interventions can be combined with other
therapeutic needs and methods. It also considers limitations in the current clinical application of
attachment and makes recommendations for further research.
Keywords: attachment, child therapy, developmental psychopathology, self-regulation, comorbidity
Attachment theory and research has proliferated recently,
spawning new studies and applications to therapy. Originating in
Bowlby’s (1973, 1980, 1982) concepts and studies on how indi-
viduals form and use relational bonds to cope with separations and
loss, it has grown into a dominant developmental and relational
theory with a strong empirical base. As with many promising
ideas, attachment theory has been embraced by therapists and
applied to clinical settings (Berlin, Ziv, Amaya-Jackson, & Green-
berg, 2005; Hughes, 2004; Fonagy, Gergely, Jurist, & Target,
2002; Lieberman & van Horn, 2008; Oppenheim & Goldsmith,
2007; Slade, 2004; Wallin, 2007; Zeanah, Berlin, & Boris, 2009).
Many of those interventions are creative and useful and rest on
solid theory and research, but some derive from tenuous assump-
tions, or poorly translate research and/or theory into practice (see
Chaffin et al., 2006; Zeanah et al., 2009 for reviews). Adaptation
of research-based assessment techniques to clinical settings re-
quires clarity regarding the difficulties insufficient attachments
engender, the exact nature of attachment-based interventions, and
how to combine such interventions with other therapeutic foci and
methods. In addition, studies of normative development do not
directly translate into knowledge about how best to alter poor
attachments, how to form new ones later in life, or how attach-
ments interact with many other aspects of development. This
article looks at the significant role that attachment can play in
therapy with children and parents by considering the basic tenets
of attachment theory, how those principles have been and can be
applied to assessments and interventions for various aged individ-
uals, and the limitations of current constructs and interventions.
Attachment Theory
According to Bowlby (1973, 1980), attachments between chil-
dren and caretakers first form in infancy from the child’s need for
nurturance, comfort, and protection. To receive adequate care,
infants and young children require closeness to caregivers and they
establish various strategies for maintaining proximity and eliciting
care and protection. Those strategies derive from the child’s per-
ception of the caregiver’s availability and what works to maximize
that availability. As children age and require less proximity, they
continue to turn to their attachment figures when in distress or
when facing challenges. When children feel secure in the avail-
ability of attachment figures, they feel confident to explore. In this
way, the attachment system regulates both exploratory and prox-
imity needs (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007). Through those experi-
ences, children develop an internal representation or internal work-
ing model (IWM) of the care and protection they have received,
which provides a similar regulating and self-comforting role.
Attachment Patterns
Over the past few decades, researchers have delineated and
elaborated four basic attachment styles: secure, anxious-avoidant,
anxious-ambivalent, and disorganized (Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters,
& Wall, 1978; Main & Solomon, 1990). Children may also show
more than one style toward the same or different caregivers
(Cowan & Cowan, 2007), although they often have a more gen-
eralized dominant attachment style. Studies find that most children
in western societies show a preference for a single attachment
figure and that later relationships often match the level of security
of that original bond (Kobak, Rosenthal, & Serwick, 2005).
This article was published Online First February 11, 2013.
Thanks to Sally Popper and the anonymous reviewers for their helpful
comments on this paper.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to Karen
Zilberstein, 8 Trumbull Road, #205, Northampton, MA 01060. E-mail:
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