Brief Note
Conflict Styles and Outcomes in Families
with Adolescent Children
Elvira Cicognani and Bruna Zani, Department of Sciences of
Education, University of Bologna, Italy
Abstract
The role of conflict in parent–adolescent relationships is a topic of considerable
theoretical debate and empirical investigation; however, limited attention has been
devoted to the strategies used by family members to deal with disagreements and their
outcomes and how they differ from early to late adolescence. This study explored
conflict styles and outcomes in a sample of 302 families with adolescent children (total
N = 906), of two age groups (13-year-olds and 15-year-olds). One hundred sixty-four
adolescents (45.7%) are female. Participants completed the ‘when we disagree’scales.
Results from both adolescents and parents confirmed the intensification of conflict from
early to middle adolescence, in terms of conflict style (higher aggression, lower
compromise) and outcome (lower intimacy).Age trends differ according to gender; in
particular, there is evidence of a more difficult position of older girls, and of the
worsening of mother–adolescent relationship from early to middle adolescence.
Keywords: family study; adolescents; parents; conflict
Introduction
Research on family relationships during adolescence has consistently demonstrated the
important role of disagreements and conflict in helping family members to renegotiate
their roles and relationships, from more hierarchical relationships at the outset of
adolescence to more egalitarian relationships by late adolescence (Goossens, 2006;
Grotevant & Cooper, 1985; Steinberg, 1990). Although high levels of conflict are
deleterious for adolescent development and future adjustment (Laursen & Collins,
1994), researchers now agree that conflict in early adolescence, which typically
involves minor everyday issues (e.g., chores, appearance, homework, school perfor-
mance, and time to go out or come in) (Allison & Schultz, 2004; Bosma, Jackson,
Zijsling, Zani, Cicognani, & Xerri, 1996; Prinz, Foster, Kent, & O’Leary, 1979) is a
normative and temporary perturbation that is functional in transforming family rela-
tionships. Moreover, moderate conflict with parents has been associated with better
adjustment than either no conflict or frequent conflict (Adams & Laursen, 2001) and
Correspondence should be addressed to Elvira Cicognani, Department of Sciences of Education,
University of Bologna,Via Filippo Re 6, 10126 Bologna, Italy. Email: elvira.cicognani@unibo.it
doi: 10.1111/j.1467-9507.2009.00545.x
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