Gender-Typed Behaviors in Friendships and Well-Being: A Cross-Cultural
Study of Chinese and American Boys
Taveeshi Gupta and Niobe Way
New York University
Rebecca K. McGill
Institute of Education Sciences
Diane Hughes
New York University
Carlos Santos
Arizona State University
Yueming Jia
Education Development Center
Hirokazu Yoshikawa
Harvard University
Xinyin Chen
University of Pennsylvania
Huihua Deng
South East University
This 3-year, longitudinal analysis examined the psychological and social correlates of adhering to gender-typed behav-
iors in friendships among boys during middle school in United States (N = 446, M
age
= 11.37 years) and in China
(N = 368, M
age
= 12.20 years). Results indicated that boys did not differ by nationality in the mean levels or in the
increase over time in adherence to gender-typed behaviors. Furthermore, adherence over time was associated with
higher depressive symptoms, lower self-esteem, and lower friendship quality for boys in both countries. However, the
associations between gender-typed behaviors and friendship quality and depressive symptoms were stronger for boys
in the United States. Our study suggests that gender-typed behaviors play an important role in the well-being of youth
in different parts of the world.
Scholars of gender identity and socialization have
long argued that adhering to gender-typed behav-
ior—whether masculine or feminine—is linked to
social and psychological adjustment (Bem, 1981;
Spence & Helmreich, 1978). Boys and girls who
behave in ways that are stereotypic of their own
gender (e.g., assertive or nurturing) or of both gen-
ders (e.g., assertive and nurturing) are better
adjusted than those who do not adhere to such ste-
reotypes (Lefkowitz & Zeldow, 2006). Yet research
also indicates that adherence to some gender-typed
behavior (e.g., being emotionally stoic for boys or
not expressing one’s opinions for girls) is linked to
poor adjustment, including higher levels of anxiety
and depressive symptoms, lower levels of self-
esteem (Brown & Gilligan, 1992; Chu, 2004; Cour-
noyer & Mahalik, 1995; Santos, 2010; Way, 2011),
and more problems at school (Pleck, 1995). This
work underscores the importance of distinguishing
among gender-typed behaviors and suggests that
adhering to certain dimensions of gender-typed
behavior may not, in fact, be good for one’s health.
Yet missing from both bodies of research is an
exploration of the cultural nature of these patterns.
It may be, for example, that adhering to gender-
typed behaviors is linked to negative adjustment in
a context such as the United States where gender
stereotypes (e.g., women are weak and men are
strong) have a long history of being challenged
(Santos, 2010; Way, 2011). In a context such as
China, however, where gender stereotypes are only
recently beginning to be challenged (Reese, 2003),
adhering to gender stereotypic behavior may not
The U.S. data come from the Center for Research on Culture,
Development and Education at New York University, funded by
the National Science Foundation (Grant# 0721383). The PIs are
Niobe Way, Diane Hughes, Catherine Tamis-LeMonda, and
Hirokazu Yoshikawa.
The China data come from collaboration among New York
University, Harvard University, the University of Western
Ontario, and Southeast University. The project is funded by each
of the collaborating universities and by the Educational Ministry
in China. The PIs of the project in China are Niobe Way, Xinyin
Chen, and Hirokazu Yoshikawa.
This article was written by Dr. McGill in her private capacity.
No official support or endorsement by the U.S. Department of
Education is intended or should be inferred.
Requests for reprints should be sent to Taveeshi Gupta, New
York University, 246 Greene Street, 8th floor, New York, NY
10003. E-mail: taveeshi.gupta@nyu.edu
© 2013 The Authors
Journal of Research on Adolescence © 2013 Society for Research on Adolescence
DOI: 10.1111/j.1532-7795.2012.00824.x
JOURNAL OF RESEARCH ON ADOLESCENCE, 23(1), 57–68