STRUGGLING TOWARDS MANHOOD: NARRATIVES OF
HOMOPHOBIA AND FATHERING
Stephen Frosh, Ann Phoenix and Rob Pattman
ABSTRACT From the perspective of psychotherapists involved in working with
young men, it is particularly interesting to consider ways in which boys may
construct versions of their masculinities through an amalgam of social and
personal discourses. Amongst the issues relating to young masculinities to arise
systematically in research studies and in psychotherapeutic work, two are of
particular interest for emerging understanding of the emotional consequences
of new structures of masculine identities. These are the relationship boys have
with their fathers, and the impact of social discourses on homosexuality. In this
paper, material is presented from one boy who participated in an in-depth inter-
view study of boys in London secondary schools. This boy reveals in unusual
detail the ways in which dominant discourses on being ‘gay’ and on fathers
govern the construction of contemporary young masculinities, even when boys
themselves seek to resist these discourses. It is suggested that consideration of
the operation of these discourses in young people’s lives is a relevant concern
for psychotherapists.
Introduction
Amongst the many elements in the construction of a ‘moral panic’ around
masculinity, the behaviour of teenage boys is particularly resonant. Media
and government, teachers and police focus on boys mainly as potential
threats in a range of areas from delinquency to sexual abuse perpetration
(e.g. Farrington 1995; Vizard et al. 1995; Emerson & Frosh 2001), with their
apparent under-achievement at school and the escalation of street crime
being current examples of ‘control’ problems. Many researchers in the area
of gender and identity have also drawn attention to an apparent ‘crisis’ in
contemporary forms of masculinity, marked by uncertainties over social role
and identity, sexuality, work and personal relationships, and often manifested
in violence or abusive behaviours towards self and others (e.g. Frosh 1994,
2000; Jukes 1993). This both reflects and contributes to the production of a
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STEPHEN FROSH is Professor of Psychology at Birkbeck College, University of
London; ANN PHOENIX is Professor of Social and Developmental Psychology at the
Open University; and ROB PATTMAN is Senior Lecturer in Sociology at the University
of Kwa-Zulu Natal, South Africa. The research described in this paper was funded
by the Economic and Social Research Council. Address for correspondence:
Professor Stephen Frosh, Centre for Psychosocial Studies, School of Psychology,
Birkbeck College, Malet Street, London WC1E 7HX. [email: s.frosh@bbk.ac.uk]