Child Development, November/December 2002, Volume 73, Number 6, Pages 1788–1802
Japanese and American Children’s Evaluations of Peer Exclusion,
Tolerance of Differences, and Prescriptions for Conformity
Melanie Killen, David S. Crystal, and Hirozumi Watanabe
Children and adolescents (N = 1,057), divided by gender, at fourth, seventh, and tenth grades, from two mid-
sized cities in the United States and in Japan, were surveyed regarding their evaluations of peer group exclu-
sion of atypical peers. Six reasons for atypicality were being aggressive, having an unconventional appearance,
acting like a clown, demonstrating cross-gender behavior, being a slow runner, and having a sad personality.
Analyses revealed significant effects for age, gender, country membership, and the context of exclusion. With
age, children demonstrated context sensitivity, and believed that the excluded child should not change him- or
herself to be accepted by the group. Across contexts, girls were less willing to exclude than were boys, and
were more tolerant of differences. The context of exclusion had an effect on all forms of judgments about exclu-
sion, and there were very few overall effects for culture. Most children disagreed with the decision to exclude,
believed that they were different from the atypical child, and believed that the excluded child should
change him- or herself to be accepted by the group. The results support a theory of developmental social
cognition in which multiple sources of influence have a significant effect on social decision making involving
the exclusion of others.
INTRODUCTION
Understanding how children and adolescents reason
about exclusion reveals the ways in which youth con-
ceptualize the relationship between the individual
and the group (see Killen, McGlothlin, & Lee-Kim,
2002). The legitimacy or wrongfulness of exclusion
depends on the nature of this conceptualization. In
some situations, for example, exclusion may be viewed
as legitimate in order to preserve social group func-
tioning (such as excluding a poor athlete from a
sports team); in other situations, exclusion may be
viewed as wrong when individual rights are violated
(such as excluding a club member because of ethnic
background). Although social psychologists have long
viewed exclusion solely in moral terms (see Opotow,
1990), our research has indicated that exclusion from
groups is a multifaceted phenomenon (Killen, Pisa-
cane, Lee-Kim, & Ardila-Rey, 2001; Killen & Stangor,
2001; Theimer, Killen, & Stangor, 2001). Different forms
of reasoning are brought to bear on decisions about
exclusion. In a similar manner, Wainryb and colleagues
(Wainryb, Shaw, Laupa, & Smith, 2001; Wainryb,
Shaw, & Maianu, 1998), also using a social–cognitive
framework, have found that tolerance is a multifac-
eted construct; tolerance depends on the content and
context of the message or value under consideration.
This view is also distinct from prior research that
identified tolerance as an absolute moral value. Fur-
ther, our view stands in contrast to theories that
conceive of exclusionary attitudes as a personality
trait, one that transcends context (Adorno, Frenkel-
Brunswick, Levinson, & Sanford, 1950; Pratto, Sida-
nius, Stallworth, & Malle, 1994).
In the present study, the approach to the issue of ex-
clusion was based, in large part, on social–cognitive
domain theory (Helwig, 1995; Killen, 1991; Smetana,
1995; Tisak, 1995; Turiel, 1998), which suggests that
social reasoning about complex moral and social
problems requires detailed analyses of context, and
that different forms of reasoning are brought to bear
on such issues. The current investigation was de-
signed to expand the domain-specific understanding
of children’s and adolescents’ attitudes toward exclu-
sion in two ways: first, by adding a cross-cultural
component; and second, by using individual-level at-
tributes of behavior or personality as criteria for ex-
clusion rather than race or gender, which we have
used in prior studies (see Killen, McGlothlin, & Lee-
Kim, 2002). If, as we have stated, decisions about ex-
clusion necessarily involve judgments about the rela-
tionship between the individual and the group, it is
reasonable to expect that such decisions would vary
widely by culture. Cultures, such as the United States
and Japan, for example, are considered to have dis-
parate orientations toward the individual–group rela-
tionship. Theorists such as Markus and Kitayama
(1991) and Triandis (1989, 1995) have characterized
the United States as an individualistic or independent
culture, whose members are seen as giving priority to
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