GENDER & SOCIETY / December 2000 Messner / CHILDREN CONSTRUCTING GENDER
Perspectives
BARBIE GIRLS VERSUS SEA MONSTERS
Children Constructing Gender
MICHAEL A. MESSNER
University of Southern California
Recent research on children’s worlds has revealed how gender varies in salience across social contexts.
Building on this observation, the author examines a highly salient gendered moment of group life among
four- and five-year-old children at a youth soccer opening ceremony, where gender boundaries were
activated and enforced in ways that constructed an apparently “natural” categorical difference
between the girls and the boys. The author employs a multilevel analytical framework to explore (1) how
children “do gender” at the level of interaction or performance, (2) how the structured gender regime
constrains and enables the actions of children and parents, and (3) how children’s gendered immersion
in popular culture provides symbolic resources with which children and parents actively create (or dis-
rupt) categorical differences. The article ends with a discussion of how gendered interactions, structure,
and cultural meanings are intertwined, in both mutually reinforcing and contradictory ways.
In the past decade, studies of children and gender have moved toward greater levels
of depth and sophistication (e.g., Jordan and Cowan 1995; McGuffy and Rich 1999;
Thorne 1993). In her groundbreaking work on children and gender, Thorne (1993)
argued that previous theoretical frameworks, although helpful, were limited: The
top-down (adult-to-child) approach of socialization theories tended to ignore the
extent to which children are active agents in the creation of their worlds—often in
direct or partial opposition to values or “roles” to which adult teachers or parents
are attempting to socialize them. Developmental theories also had their limits due
to their tendency to ignore group and contextual factors while overemphasizing
“the constitution and unfolding of individuals as boys or girls” (Thorne 1993, 4). In
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AUTHOR’S NOTE: Appreciative thanks to Pierrette Hondagneu-Sotelo, Lynn Spigel, Leslie Cole,
Barrie Thorne, and the students in my sociology-of-sex-and-gender seminar for helpful comments on the
first draft of this article. Christine Bose and the three anonymous reviewers at Gender & Society added
additional suggestions that sharpened the article considerably. Special thanks to Sasha
Hondagneu-Messner and Miles Hondagneu-Messner for making it possible for me to witness events like
the one analyzed in this article.
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