Mediated Intimacies
FREDRIKA THELANDERSSON
Rutgers University, USA
Tis entry reviews the ways in which “traditional” intimacy concerning sex and
relationships have been transformed by communication technologies, as well as how
these technologies have made a range of other connections “intimate.” It does so by
discussing three diferent kinds of mediated intimacy as it is expressed in the Global
North. Te frst interpretation draws on Gill’s (2009) work on the way in which
discourses of sex and relationship advice are mediated in women’s magazines and
looks at a recent study of sex advice in media culture. Te second defnition refers to
intimacy and social media, and reviews the main points of Chambers’s (2013) Social
Media and Personal Relationships: Online Intimacies and Networked Friendship, which
examines this in detail. Te third kind of mediated intimacy discussed here concerns
the way in which celebrities use social media to create intimate relationships with fans
(Berryman & Kavka, 2017; Marwick & boyd, 2011).
Sex and Relationship Advice
Te frst kind of mediated intimacy is generally concerned with the more traditional
understanding of intimacy as relating to one-on-one romantic relationships that
involve sex and the family, and deals with “the ways in which diferent kinds of intimate
relationality are constructed in diferent media sites” (Gill, 2009, p. 346). Tis involves
everything from news reports about forced marriages, celebrity infdelities, “chick lit,”
and how-to parenting guides. Te way intimate relationality comes to be constructed
in media texts is closely related to cultural constructions of gender and sexuality, as
these narratives tend to function as scripts for how to “correctly” be a man or a woman
(almost always adhering to a rigid gender binary). Tis aspect of mediated intimacy has
been studied extensively by Barker, Gill, and Harvey in Mediated Intimacy: Sex Advice in
Media Culture (2018), and this entry next goes over the main points of their arguments.
Te notion of mediated intimacy as sex and relationship advice is closely related to
the body of mediated advice ofen referred to as “self-help.” Barker et al. (2018) move
away from the term self-help, however, because the knowledge about sex and intimate
relationships that circulate in media culture reaches beyond traditional self-help gen-
res to include things like television shows, celebrity autobiographies, and social media
channels. Tey argue that “we live in a world sufused and saturated with representations
of intimate relationships” (Barker et al., 2018, p. 24; emphasis in original) which means
that our ideas about what an intimate relationship should look like come from a wide
range of diferent media sources, far beyond straightforward how-to guides.
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DOI: 10.1002/9781119429128.iegmc288