1 Perpetrators Need Acceptance and Victims Need Empowerment in Order to Reconcile: A Needs-Based Model of Reconciliation Nurit Shnabel Arie Nadler Yale University Tel-Aviv University Contact: Nurit Shnabel Department of Psychology Yale University 2 Hillhouse Ave. P.O. Box 208205 New Haven, CT 06520 Tel: 860-995-7074 Email: nurit.shnabel@yale.edu nuritshnabel@gmail.com