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Walking Out for Yizkor
Zvi Ron
Independent scholar, Israel
Abstract
In many synagogues it is customary for people with living parents to walk out of the
sanctuary for the Yizkor memorial service. This has been explained in many ways, with
most explanations involving the evil eye or liturgical concerns. This article examines the
origin of the Yizkor service and its connection to the collection of monetary donations
in honor of the deceased. This practice, connecting Yizkor with donations, is proposed
as a significant factor that those with living parents would not participate in this service.
Keywords
Yizkor – custom – liturgy – memorial – evil eye
A Brief History of Yizkor
One of the central concerns of early Askenazic prayer is death and mourning.
This is expressed in the role of Kaddish, and prayers such as Av ha-rahamim
and Yizkor.1 The history of congregational memorial prayers on Shabbat and
holidays begins with memorial prayers introduced into the Ashkenazic liturgy
after the Torah reading on the Shabbat before Shavuot to commemorate the
martyrs of the Crusades. This was the time of year when many major Rhineland
communities were destroyed during the Crusades. The memorial prayers did
1 I.M. Ta-Shma, The Early Ashkenazic Prayer (Jerusalem 2003) 13. Regarding the development of
Sephardic memorial prayers, see S. Glick, Or le-ʾavel (Efrat 1991) 134–137. On Av ha-rachamim,
see J.I. Lifshitz, ‘Av ha-rahamim: On the “Father of Mercy” Prayer,’ in S.C. Reif, A. Lehnardt and
A. Bar-Levav, eds., Death in Jewish Life – Burial and Mourning Customs among Jews of Europe
and Nearby Communities (Berlin 2014) 141–154.