A father names his son Lucifer and then boasts
that his now severely disturbed 2-year-old “fits
his title.” A mother is convinced that her 3-
month-old infant is kicking her “on purpose”
when she changes the child’s diaper. Absorbed
in her thoughts, another mother consistently
fails to notice the crying of her 1-month old.
Home alone with his 8-month-old baby, a father
believes that the child’s naptime presents the
ideal opportunity to go jogging. A toddler’s
mother refuses his entreaties to play for fear of
“spoiling” him. In each of these situations we
bear witness to an infant who holds no parental
focus as an individual in his or her own right
but, rather, becomes the unwitting participant
in a deeply conflictual aspect of the parent’s ex-
perience that impedes an empathic awareness
of the baby’s own developmental and emotional
needs.
Certain themes predominate, although their
psychological origins and behavioral manifes-
tations are as varied and unique as the individu-
als who enact them.
In these examples, the “evil” infant, the “de-
structive” infant, the “invisible” infant, the “in-
dependent infant,” and the “insatiable” infant
represent recurrent parental constructions of
what Stern (1985) called the clinical infant.
Each of these constructions, expressed in the
resulting set of caregiving behaviors, stands for
an important but unconscious aspect of the par-
ent’s sense of self and other that interferes with
an emotionally satisfying relationship with the
child and has a negative effect on the baby’s de-
velopment.
Infant–parent psychotherapy aims at protect-
ing infant–toddler mental health by aligning the
parents’ perceptions and resulting caregiving
behaviors more closely with the baby’s devel-
opmental and individual needs within the cul-
tural, socioeconomic, and interpersonal context
of the family. The therapeutic process may take
a variety of forms, but the core component in-
volves the therapist’s effort to understand how
the parent’s current and past experiences are
shaping perceptions, feelings, and behaviors
toward the infant (Fraiberg, 1980). The baby’s
contribution to the interactional difficulties, for
example, through physical or temperamental
characteristics that hold particular meaning for
the parents, has become an increasingly recog-
nized aspect of infant–parent psychotherapy as
well. The intervention focuses on what tran-
spires between the baby and the parent, regard-
less of its constitutional, psychological or his-
torical origins. The “identified patient” is the
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Infant–Parent Psychotherapy:
Core Concepts and
Current Approaches
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ALICIA F. LIEBERMAN
ROBIN SILVERMAN
JEREE H. PAWL
This is a chapter excerpt from Guilford Publications.
Handbook of Infant Mental Health, Second Edition, Edited by Charles H. Zeanah
Copyright © 2005