Partner-focused obsessions and self-esteem: An experimental
investigation
Guy Doron
*
, Ohad Szepsenwol
Baruch Ivcher School of Psychology, Interdisciplinary Center (IDC) Herzliya, Israel
article info
Article history:
Received 10 September 2014
Received in revised form
16 May 2015
Accepted 17 May 2015
Available online 23 May 2015
Keywords:
OCD
ROCD
Relationships
Self
Obsessive-compulsive symptoms
Partner-focused symptoms
abstract
Background: Relationship-related obsessive-compulsive phenomena (ROCD) are encountered frequently
in the clinic, and involve severe consequences to personal and relational well-being. One common
presentation of ROCD involves disabling preoccupation and doubts focusing on intimate partner's flaws
(partner-focused obsessions). It was previously suggested that individuals perceiving their partner's
failures or flaws as reflecting on their own self-worth may be more sensitive to intrusive thoughts
pertaining to their partner's qualities and characteristics. In the current studies, we assessed the link
between partner-focused OC symptoms and self-esteem contingent on partner-value.
Methods: In two studies we assessed the impact of experimentally induced partner-focused intrusions
on self-esteem. In Study 1, we assessed individuals' self-esteem after one of three primes: (a) intrusion
about one's partner comparing unfavorably with others of the same sex (i.e., alternative partners), (b)
intrusion about one's partner comparing unfavorably to oneself, (c) and a neutral prime. In study 2, we
tried to replicate Study 1 using a pre-post design and also examine whether favorable intrusions of one's
partner would have an opposite effect on self-esteem than unfavorable intrusions.
Results: Compared with the other groups, participants who were primed with intrusions of their partner
being unfavorably compared to others reported lower self-esteem, but only if they had high levels of
partner-focused symptoms. Favorable intrusions of partner to others did not have a positive effect on
self-esteem among individuals with high levels of partner-focused symptoms.
Conclusions: Partner-value self-sensitivity may be one of the perpetuating mechanisms involved in
partner-focused OC phenomena.
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Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a complex and het-
erogeneous disorder with a variety of obsessional themes (Clark &
Beck, 2010; McKay et al., 2004). Exploring the implications of
obsessional themes on etiology, maintenance, and treatment may
promote insights of understudied processes of OCD and related
disorders (Doron, 2014). Indeed, we have recently witnessed a
surge in theory and research pertaining to the role of common and
specific factors associated with specific OCD themes, including
scrupulosity (Abramowitz & Jacoby, 2014), repugnant obsessions
(Moulding, Aardema, & O'Connor, 2014), moral and physical
contamination fears (Elliott & Radomsky, 2013) and preoccupation
with physical-appearance (Veale, 2004; Wihlem & Neziroglu,
2002).
An obsessional theme receiving increasing empirical and theo-
retical attention is close interpersonal relationships (Doron, Derby,
& Szepsenwol, 2014). This obsessional theme has often been
referred to as Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (ROCD;
Doron, Derby et al., 2014; Doron, Derby, Szepsenwol, & Talmor,
2012a, 2012b). ROCD research has focused on two related, but
conceptually distinct symptom presentations (Doron, Derby et al.,
2014). The first presentation, coined relationship-centered obses-
sive compulsive (OC) symptoms, involves obsessive doubts and
preoccupation centered on the relationship itself. These symptoms
often revolve around the strength of one's feelings towards the
partner, the feel of the relationship (does it feel right), or the nature
of one's partner's feelings towards oneself (Doron et al., 2012b).
The second presentation, coined partner-focused OC symptoms,
involves obsessive doubts and preoccupation centered on
perceived flaws of the relationship partner (Doron et al., 2012a).
These flaws are often physical features (e.g., “his/her nose is too
big”), social qualities (e.g., “s/he is not social enough”, “s/he does
* Corresponding author. P.O. Box 167, Herzliya, 46150, Israel.
E-mail address: gdoron@idc.ac.il (G. Doron).
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J. Behav. Ther. & Exp. Psychiat. 49 (2015) 173e179