Research
Journal of College Counseling
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April 2015
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Volume 18 7
© 2015 by the American Counseling Association. All rights reserved.
Received 11/16/10
Revised 04/15/12
Accepted 05/04/12
DOI: 10.1002/j.2161-1882.2015.00065.x
Helicopter Parenting: The Effect of an
Overbearing Caregiving Style on Peer
Attachment and Self-Efficacy
Daniel J. van Ingen, Stacy R. Freiheit, Jesse A. Steinfeldt, Linda L. Moore,
David J. Wimer, Adelle D. Knutt, Samantha Scapinello, and Amber Roberts
Helicopter parenting, an observed phenomenon on college campuses, may adversely affect college students.
The authors examined how helicopter parenting is related to self-efficacy and peer relationships among
190 undergraduate students ages 16 to 28 years. Helicopter parenting was associated with low self-efficacy,
alienation from peers, and a lack of trust among peers. Implications are provided for counselors and psy-
chologists in college- and university-based counseling centers to help them to understand and provide
assessment and treatment for adult children of helicopter parents.
Keywords: helicopter parents, self-efficacy, peer relationships
B
orn between the early 1980s and early 2000s, millennials have entered
college with their parents hovering closely above and managing many
areas of their lives (Coomes & DeBard, 2004; Howe & Strauss, 2000;
Murray, 1997). These parents have been referred to as helicopter parents, or
parents who, like helicopters, stay closely overhead, right above their child.
Helicopter parents are rarely out of reach, pay extremely close attention to
their child, and rush to prevent any harm, particularly at the adult child’s
educational institution (Rainey, 2006). Helicopter parents are in constant
contact with their adult children and the school administration. With their
adult children, helicopter parents average 10.4 forms of communication
(e.g., e-mail, cell phone, text message) per week, leaving those students with
weakened autonomy (Hofer, 2008). These parents tend to make academic
decisions for their adult children and feel badly about themselves when their
adult children do not do well.
Helicopter parents became particularly apparent on college campuses in the
early 2000s as the millennial generation began reaching college age. Children
of the millennial generation are the products of baby boomer parents, who have
made child rearing a major focus of their adult lives (Gallo & Gallo, 2001). Baby
boomers, born between 1946 and 1964, are the wealthiest and best educated
Daniel J. van Ingen and Linda L. Moore, Chrestomathy, Inc., Eden Prairie, Minnesota; Stacy R. Freiheit, Department
of Psychology, Augsburg College; Jesse A. Steinfeldt, Department of Counseling and Educational Psychology, Indiana
University–Bloomington; David J. Wimer, Department of Psychology, Kutztown University; Adelle D. Knutt, private
practice, Stratford, Ontario, Canada; Samantha Scapinello, private practice, Burlington, Ontario, Canada; Amber
Roberts, University Counseling Center, Grand Valley State University. Daniel J. van Ingen is now in private practice,
Sarasota, Florida. David J.Wimer is now at Department of Psychology, Pennsylvania State University. Correspondence
concerning this article should be addressed to Daniel J. van Ingen, 5602 Marquesas Circle #102-7, Sarasota, FL
34233 (e-mail: danieljvaningen@gmail.com).