ABSTRACT. This paper explores gender barriers to
the formation of the female mentor – male protégé
relationship. The authors consider both physiological
as well as social gender as a way to help understand
the scarcity of these relationships. A number of
gender-related factors are considered, including
organizational demographics, relational demography,
sexual liaisons, gender stereotypes, gender behaviors,
and power dynamics. The paper concludes with direc-
tions for future research that will help provide further
insights into the development and success of the
female mentor – male protégé relationship.
The earliest female mentor – male protégé rela-
tionship can be traced to Greek mythology. In
ancient Greece, when Odysseus left to fight the
Trojan War, he entrusted the education of his son
Telemachus to his wise and trusted counselor
and friend, Mentor. Unknown to others, the
goddess Athena disguised herself as Mentor for
the protégé Telemachus. Although it is unclear
exactly why Athena disguised herself as a male,
gender may provide some of the explanation. For
example, perhaps Athena misrepresented herself
to Telemachus to create an all-male mentoring
relationship. Or, perhaps she was concerned
about Telemachus’ perceptions, and disguised
herself to convey a sense of masculinity to him.
Regardless of the motivations and perceptions of
these Greek characters, the possibility of gender-
related barriers to the formation of a female
mentor – male protégé relationship is an inter-
esting and complicated topic in this ancient
legend as well as today.
Theory suggests that the gender composition
of a mentoring relationship is one of its
most important components (Ragins, 1997,
1999). Indeed, in the past decade, research
on gender and mentoring has received increasing
attention. There are two ways to conceptualize
gender: physiological and social (Bem, 1974;
Scott, 1986; Spence et al., 1975). A person’s
physiological gender is either male or female
while an individual’s social gender can be
masculine, feminine, or androgynous (Bem,
1974; Goktepe and Schneier, 1989; Spence
et al., 1975). In other words, social gender con-
siders individual personality characteristics while
physiological gender considers biological sex
(Spence and Helmreich, 1979; Spence et al.,
1975).
Existing mentoring research has considered the
role of gender in these two distinct ways. Most
research on gender and mentoring has compared
the different experiences that men and women
have in mentoring relationships (see reviews
by O’Neill, forthcoming; Ragins, 1999). In
addition, at least one study found that mas-
culinity, femininity, and androgyny were more
important than biological gender in predicting
the likelihood of having a mentor and the func-
tions of the relationship for men and women
protégés (Scandura and Ragins, 1993).
Physiological and social gender are both likely
to influence the formation of the female mentor
– male protégé relationship. To date, however,
there has been little research on women men-
toring men. In part, this is because of the
limited number of these relationships. More
Gender Barriers to the
Female Mentor – Male
Protégé Relationship
Journal of Business Ethics 37: 51–63, 2002.
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Regina M. O’Neill
Stacy D. Blake-Beard
Regina O’Neill is Professor of Organizational Behavior,
School of Management, Suffolk University. She has
studied mentoring processes extensively.
Stacy Blake-Beard is a Professor in the School of Education.
She has examined diversity issues in organizations and
the role of mentoring in career development.