Book Reviews
Lunch at Woolworth’s? LBGT America After Marriage
Equality
Philip Kasinitz
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A few years ago, shortly after New York legalized same-sex marriage, I ran
into my old downstairs neighbor. Since I had last seen her, she and her partner had
been among plaintiffs in the court case that challenged New York’s prohibition on
same-sex marriage. While they actually lost their case, the mobilization around it
had been critical to the movement that led to the passage of the state’s Marriage
Equality Act. After the usual “catching up” questions (“How are the kids? What’s
happening in the old building?”), I asked, “So, are congratulations in order? When
are you guys getting married?” She looked at her shoes for a moment and said,
“You know, it’s kind of like the lunch counter sit-ins. I mean, we had to fight for
the right. That was really important. But now that we have the right... I mean,
lunch at Woolworth’s? Really?”
Since the U.S. Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriage nationwide in June
2015, I have thought a lot about that conversation. Few civil rights victories in
recent years have come as suddenly or unexpectedly as marriage equality. It is hard
to remember that not so long ago, many mainstream lesbian, bisexual, gay, and
transgender (LBGT) activists considered marriage too radical to push for, prefer-
ring instead to work for antidiscrimination measures and for legal recognition of
“civil unions” and “domestic partnerships.” In many places in the country, even
these modest goals seemed like long shots. In 2004, Massachusetts became the only
state in the United States to, somewhat halfheartedly, recognize same-sex marriage.
Progressives around the country were initially slow to follow its lead. Barack
Obama came into office opposed to same-sex marriage. Hillary Clinton, whose hus-
band signed the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) in 1996, did not come out in
favor until 2013. Even Bernie Sanders, one of the few members of Congress to vote
against DOMA and a consistent opponent of measures to restrict same-sex mar-
riage, did not affirmatively come out in favor of Vermont’s marriage equality law
until 2009.
Yet in the space of a few short years, same-sex marriage has come to be widely
accepted in much of America. Once a notion on the radical fringe of gay politics,
announcements of same-sex nuptials now appear weekly in the pages of the staid
New York Times. Of course, many conservatives still vociferously oppose such
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Department of Sociology, CUNY Graduate Center, 333 5
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Avenue, New York, New York 10016;
e-mail: pkasinitz@gc.cuny.edu.
Sociological Forum, Vol. 31, No. 4, December 2016
DOI: 10.1111/socf.12305
© 2016 Eastern Sociological Society
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