Iran J Psychiatry Behav Sci. 2021 June; 15(2):e108339.
Published online 2021 June 28.
doi: 10.5812/ijpbs.108339.
Research Article
On the Causal Relationship Between Attachment Styles and Marital
Satisfaction: Mediating Role of Gottman’s Marital Communication
Model
Maryam Mardani
1
, Sayed Ali Marashi
1, *
and Zabihollah Abbaspour
2
1
Department of Psychology, Faculty of Education and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran
2
Department of Counseling, Faculty of Education and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran
*
Corresponding author: Department of Psychology, Faculty of Education and Psychology, Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz, Ahvaz, Iran. Email: sayedalimarashi@scu.ac.ir
Received 2020 August 09; Revised 2021 April 01; Accepted 2021 May 15.
Abstract
Background: Marital satisfaction is one of the main factors affecting the quality of life in marital relationships. It refers to individ-
uals’ positive attitudes toward their marital relationship, and marital dissatisfaction is a negative and displeased attitude toward
various aspects of marital relationship.
Objectives: The present study aimed to explore the causal relationship between attachment styles and marital satisfaction regard-
ing the mediating role of Gottman’s marital communication model.
Methods: The statistical population encompassed all university students in Ahvaz in the academic year 2019 - 2020. The multi-stage
random sampling method was used, and 230 persons were selected as the study samples. Hudson’s Index of Marital Satisfaction
(IMS), Coolins and Reed’s Revised Adult Attachment Scale (RAAS), and Gottman’s Communication Skills Scale (FHS) were also used
to collect the data. Data analysis was performed using SPSS software version 26 and AMOS software version 24.
Results: The results indicated that the study model well-fitted the study population, and all direct paths were statistically signif-
icant. Moreover, there was a significant relationship between secure attachment, anxiety-insecure attachment, and avoidance-
insecure attachment with marital satisfaction mediated by Gottman’s communication skills (P ≤ 0.001).
Conclusions: Given the effect of Gottman’s couple attachment styles and four communication skills on marital satisfaction, their
effectiveness in marital satisfaction is proved. Accordingly, therapists are recommended to implement educational and treatment
programs containing cognitive and preventive attachment styles and Gottman’s communication skills to promote couples’ marital
satisfaction.
Keywords: Attachment Styles, Gottman’s Communication Skills, Marital Satisfaction, Students
1. Background
Marriage is one of the most profound and most crit-
ical relational factors in human lives, which is accompa-
nied with a close and intimate relationship between the
couples. A married person expects a new life full of hap-
piness and satisfaction; hence, the success of a marriage
or marital satisfaction is more important than marriage
itself (1). Marital satisfaction refers to individuals’ opti-
mistic attitudes as such, the couple feels happy and satis-
fied with their marriage and attachment (2, 3). The fixed
characteristics of unhealthy marriages are scarce; how-
ever, Gottman, cited in Hudson and Fraley (4), considered
the first one to be reciprocal negative emotions arousing
from the failure of resolution efforts. The second is the
demand-withdrawal pattern. Women are more likely to be
critical, while men are more likely indifferent. The third
one is fewer positive behaviors than negative behaviors.
The frequency of the latter scenario is about 0.8 in unsta-
ble marriages. The fourth scenario refers to the existence
and abundance of negative behaviors.
Another factor affecting marital satisfaction is the
anxious-insecure attachment style, which is characterized
by extreme attachment. People with anxious-attachment
styles constantly tend to communicate with others and
only concentrate on ones’ needs. They are always anxious,
and they consider a meaningless word or wrong reaction
as a big problem or even a threat, which may destroy their
relationship with their spouse.
The other variable affecting marital satisfaction is
avoidance-insecure attachment style. Instead of solving
problems, being anxious, or contacting others, individu-
als with this attachment style tend to avoid or escape from
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