How to Cite:
Zahrakar, K., Nouri, F. L., & Mohsenzadeh, F. (2022). Exploring factors affecting conflict between
daughter-in-law and mother-in-law: A qualitative study. International Journal of Health
Sciences, 6(S7), 48338–48365. Retrieved from
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International Journal of Health Sciences ISSN 2550-6978 E-ISSN 2550-696X © 2022.
Manuscript submitted: 9 May 2022, Manuscript revised: 18 July 2022, Accepted for publication: 27 August 2022
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Exploring factors affecting conflict between
daughter-in-law and mother-in-law: A
qualitative study
Kianoush Zahrakar
Professor of Counseling, Faculty of Psychology and Education, Department of
Counseling, Kharazmi University, Tehran, Iran.
Corresponding author email: dr_zahrakar@khu.ac.ir
Farshad Lavafpour Nouri
Ph.D. Candidate of Counseling, Faculty of Psychology and Education, Department
of Counseling, Kharazmi University, Tehran, Iran.
Farshad Mohsenzadeh
Associate Professor of Counseling, Faculty of Psychology and Education,
Department of Counseling, Kharazmi University, Tehran, Iran.
Abstract---The aim of this study is to understand the process of
conflict between mothers-in-law (MILs) and daughters-in-law (DILs),
contributing factors, strategies, and consequences of utilizing these
strategies. Using the grounded theory method, qualitative in-depth
interviews were conducted with 14 Iranian mothers-in-law and 18
daughters-in-law parents between 2019 and 2022. Based on the data,
a conceptual model of conflict was developed, which explains what
causal factors have affected the conflict, in what context and under
which intervention conditions did the conflict occur, what strategies
were used to manage this conflict, and what are the consequences of
this conflict. The coding process revealed that Failure to form a shared
family identity-the core phenomenon-was at the heart of this conflict.
Implications for prevention programs, as well as detailed findings, are
discussed.
Keywords---Mother-in-law, Daughter-in-law, Conflict, Grounded theory.
Introduction
The family is considered the primary source of comfort, closeness, and love (Hajjat
and Mehyar, 2003). The most typical social unit in urban settings is the nuclear
family, but in rural regions, it is the extended family. Families and their extended