Research Paper
The International Journal of Indian Psychology
ISSN 2348-5396 (Online) | ISSN: 2349-3429 (Print)
Volume 9, Issue 1, January- March, 2021
DIP: 18.01.021/20210901, DOI: 10.25215/0901.021
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Solution-focused therapy to improve husband and wife
communication patterns
Zainul Anwar
1
*, Riski Januar
2
ABSTRACT
Communication between husband and wife is one of the keys to successful family life; thus,
it is necessary to handle it carefully, especially when the communication pattern appears
unhealthy. Starting from the husband, who often changed his decisions without
communicating it to his wife, it caused deep disappointment. This disappointment caused the
wife to be more emotional and angry more often, while at the same time, the husband also
continued to feel cornered by the unwanted situation. Regarding this phenomenon, the current
study applied an intervention called Solution-Focused Therapy. The results of the
intervention showed that there was an improvement in the communication patterns between
the husband and the wife. It can be seen from the wife who tried to improve the way she
communicated with her husband using soft tones, while the husband also tried not to make
the same mistakes.
Keywords: Solution-Focused Therapy, Communication Pattern, Family, Husband And Wife
family is a group of individuals bound through marriage or birth, which aims to
maintain the culture, create and improve physical, mental, and emotional
development in which they interact and communicate with each other (Afiatin,
2018).
The relationship between a man and a woman in a marriage is the highest form of
relationship, which involves physical, emotional, spiritual, and social aspects of life
(Khurana, 2017). Some individuals use marriage as the standard of one's prosperity through
the attachment between a man and a woman (Dolbik-Vorobei, 2011). A happy marriage
could affect individuals' psychological and physical health (Zimmermann, De Zwaan, &
Heinrichs, 2019). Romantic relationships, especially among adults, are categorized as the
most significant social interactions. The positive and negative characteristics of a
relationship can affect the well-being of individuals and partners in particular. In contrast,
the quality of the unwanted relationships, such as a conflict, has negatively affected the well-
being outcomes in domestic life, such as increased depression symptoms and poor physical
health outcomes (Roberson, Norona, Lenger, & Olmstead, 2018).
1
Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang
2
Faculty of Psychology, Universitas Muhammadiyah Malang
*Responding Author
Received: December 01, 2020; Revision Received: February 10, 2021; Accepted: March 03, 2021
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